Domestic violence is a serious and widespread issue that affects individuals and families across all backgrounds, regardless of age, gender, race, or socioeconomic status. At its core, domestic violence is about power and control. It includes a pattern of abusive behavior used by one partner to gain or maintain control over another intimate partner. Understanding what domestic violence looks like is the first step toward stopping it—and supporting those who have been affected.

Defining Domestic Violence

Domestic violence, also referred to as intimate partner violence (IPV), can take many forms:

• Physical abuse: Hitting, slapping, choking, pushing, or using physical force in any way.
• Emotional abuse: Insults, threats, humiliation, intimidation, or manipulation meant to degrade or control.
• Psychological abuse: Gaslighting, isolation, or actions that cause fear or confusion.
• Sexual abuse: Any non-consensual sexual act or behavior.
• Financial abuse: Controlling a partner’s access to money, employment, or financial resources.
• Digital abuse: Using technology to stalk, harass, or intimidate a partner.

Abuse is not always visible. Many survivors suffer in silence for months or even years before speaking out or seeking help.

The Impact of Domestic Violence

Domestic violence doesn’t just affect the person being abused—it affects children, families, communities, and future generations. Survivors may experience long-term physical injuries, and mental health challenges like depression or PTSD, loss of employment, housing instability, and damaged relationships. Recognizing the signs early and knowing how to offer support can save lives.

How You Can Help

If you suspect someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, here’s how you can help:

• Listen without judgment. Let them share their story at their own pace.
• Believe them. Never minimize their experiences or tell them what they “should” do.
• Offer resources. Share local helplines, shelters, or advocacy services.
• Stay connected. Isolation can increase danger. Stay in touch and check in regularly.
• Respect their choices. Leaving an abusive relationship is complicated and often dangerous. Support their decisions, even if they aren’t what you’d choose.

How We Help

At Blackstone Valley Advocacy Center, we are committed to supporting individuals impacted by domestic violence. Our services include:

• Crisis intervention and 24/7 helplines
• Emergency shelter and safe housing
• Counseling and mental health support
• Legal advocacy and court accompaniment
• Safety planning and case management
• Support groups for survivors and children
• Our trained staff creates a safe and confidential environment where survivors can begin the journey of healing and rebuilding their lives.

You Are Not Alone

If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, there is help and there is hope. Reach out. Speak up. You are not alone, and you deserve to be safe and respected.